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Responding to Bids: The Currency of Connection in Relationships

Relationships thrive on responsiveness. When one partner extends a "bid" for connection—whether through a comment, question, touch, or glance—how the other responds can either strengthen or weaken the relationship's foundation. This dynamic, first identified by relationship researcher Dr. John Gottman, reveals much about why some relationships flourish while others falter (Gottman & Silver, 1999).

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